Benjamin and Aly Cokeley Aly Kristina Howard and Benjamin David Cokeley were married May 23, 2015 at the South Carolina Aquarium in Charleston, South Carolina. Aly is the daughter of Steve and Kim Howard of Charleston, South Carolina. Ben is the son of Dave and Becky Cokeley of Leesburg, Virginia. Hannah Bishop, cousin of the bride, was maid-of-honor. Meg Lacasse, Sarah Cokeley, Ali Darley and Kira Schlepp served as bridesmaids. Mazzy Lacasse was flower girl. Taylor Cokeley, brother of the groom, was best man. Bobby Columbus, Luke Arbogast, Mike Frye and Austin Kirkland were groomsmen. Orlando Silver was the ring bearer. Aly is a graduate of Canterbury High School, and Furman University. Ben is a graduate of Loudoun County High School, and Virginia Commonwealth University. Ben and Aly reside in Charleston, South Carolina.